Hope, Meaning, and Over Indexing on Possibility

Reader,

A client was leading the charge on a product his organization believed would launch a new revenue stream. His bosses were all-in. The energy was high. The roadmap was set.

But months in, despite the investment and initial optimism, something in his gut said the payoff wasn't coming.

He raised his doubts. Carefully at first, then more directly. And every time, he got the same response:

You're being a naysayer. You're not a team player. Get on board.

He wasn't resistant to innovation. He was asking a simple but important question:

What if there's a better path?

Months later, the product is fizzling out — and so is he, his usual fire dulled by quiet resentment and disappointment.

The problem wasn't strategy. The problem is what happens when we get too committed to the current state to consider anything beyond agreement.

When people stop feeling safe enough to challenge assumptions, ask hard questions, or offer a different perspective, something more dangerous than disagreement happens:

Hope starts to erode.

Early in my career and throughout the years, I heard:

"Hope is not a strategy."

It was said like wisdom. Like toughness. Like the mark of a serious leader.

This week, I heard author and workplace expert Jen Fisher offer a different perspective:

Hope is THE strategy.

Gallup's research backs her up: the most common trait people associate with positive leadership isn't decisiveness or charisma. It's hope.

And most leaders, Jen writes, are quietly depleting it every single day. Workplaces have become hope-depleting systems — not because leaders don't care, but because high achievers can unintentionally drain hope while trying to drive performance.

By over-indexing on urgency and under-investing in possibility. By focusing so hard on solving problems, people stop believing something better is possible.

Jen's book, Hope is the Strategy, identifies seven leadership behaviors that quietly kill it:

Over-indexing on problems
Constant change with no narrative
Micromanagement and over-control
Only rewarding output
Ambiguity without clarity
Modeling depletion
Never acknowledging progress

Which of these are showing up in your everyday?

Leadership under pressure has a way of narrowing us. We focus forward. Solve problems. Push harder. That drive is often what makes leaders successful.

Unchecked, it can also become the very thing that exhausts the people counting on us.

People don't burn out only from hard work. They burn out when effort feels disconnected from possibility. When the future no longer feels worth building.

The strongest leaders don't just manage performance — that's maintenance.

They help people believe again. They create environments where people feel safe to speak honestly, take smart risks, and see a future worth moving toward. That's where imagination becomes the fuel.

When people believe a better future is possible — and that their actions can help create it — everything changes. Thinking gets bolder. Resilience stops feeling like survival and starts feeling like momentum.

That's not soft leadership. That's resilient leadership.

Go lead yourself and your team with hope this week.

This week, I had the pleasure of speaking with Julia Davis on the Growth & Grit podcast — love that title! We explore the questions that shape everything: Who do I want to become? What do I want my company to become? And in the process… who have I already become?

Sometimes the smallest shift in how we see, feel, or respond opens up entirely new possibilities.

In my research on high achievers, I've found there are three types of performers: Soldiers, Builders, and Creators. Curious which one you are?

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